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New Rule —

OKC boy texted me a video on Saturday.  He was lying in bed, t-shirt on, but naked from the waist down.  His cock was in full view.  He lazed back on his bed watching porn while masturbating. I watched the video, noting how I was somewhat turned on, yet also somewhat turned off. The thought […]

Faire —

“Up to anything today?” “Working on school work.  What you up to?” “Well it’s looking like I’m going to Ren Faire stag.  It’s the last possible day for me to go (out of town next weekend).” “Oh, what time you going?” ~ I didn’t expect OKC boy to be free.  Even as I texted him, […]

The Un-Boyfriend —

I stopped looking. I stopped trying.  I have barely touched my OKCupid profile, answered messages, or tried to hookup with anyone since meeting OKC boy. It came to me last night, as I snuggled up in bed, reading a blog before my eyelids shut for the evening: OKC boy is the perfect un-boyfriend. We have had three […]

The Upside to Amputation —

“I know this is hard, and you can totally tell me to fuck off, but can you see an upside to this revelation?” – Doc“Well, yes. I invested a lot of emotional energy their way, so now that I’ve accepted that the fantasy in my head won’t happen, I can invest most of that emotional […]

Is This It? —

~ my poly adventure continues ~ I had this ranty angry full-of-feelings blog written out earlier today. I was sitting, waiting for my car to be serviced, with plenty of time to delve into some not-so-fun topics, when I roughed out a fairly good blog entry. But that’s not what I’m posting today. You’ll get […]

Must Eat Pussy —

I have not been on OKCupid for long, but in my brief stint I have grown disheartened, disillusioned, and dis, I mean pissed, off in general by the crop of folk migrating my way. It seems so simple, and yet it also seems to be the hardest thing in the world: a person who I […]

Three Notes On My Poly Adventure —

I guess this is going to be an ongoing random series, me talking about my poly life (or lack there of). 1) Pedestrian Polyamory So I now am listening to yet another polyamory podcast. This one came as recommendation from a friend and I am loving it. The podcast is called Pedestrian Polyamory. Our hosts […]

Two Notes On My Poly Adventure —

1) In my continuing kink/BDSM/poly education, I have started listening to Poly Weekly podcast. I highly recommend the podcast. Cunning Minx is kind of awesome. Recently, while partaking of a post during the dinner break at work, I heard about an interesting poly practice. It’s called the 100% Game. The rules are simple. 1- Ask […]