the life and musings of a kinky slut
I have not been on OKCupid for long, but in my brief stint I have grown disheartened, disillusioned, and dis, I mean pissed, off in general by the crop of folk migrating my way. It seems so simple, and yet it also seems to be the hardest thing in the world: a person who I […]
1) In my continuing kink/BDSM/poly education, I have started listening to Poly Weekly podcast. I highly recommend the podcast. Cunning Minx is kind of awesome. Recently, while partaking of a post during the dinner break at work, I heard about an interesting poly practice. It’s called the 100% Game. The rules are simple. 1- Ask […]
1- Pack Light Lighter than what you think light is. And then even lighter than that. I landed in London and met CherryBondage at Heathrow airport. After a quick primer on the London Underground, as well as a handy little map that fit in my pocket (which I lost), we then proceeded to the Waterloo […]
As I walked down a less than crowded DC street, I felt sad. As I strolled, with plenty of time to reach my destination, I pondered my feelings, the subtle ache in my heart. I wondered, Why am I feeling this way?As per Doc’s request, I have been more tuned into my emotions in the […]
I was stood up tonight, and, funny enough, I am the happier for it. It was my work friend from Faire yesterday. We had arranged to hang out this evening, but he had to cancel; some bullshit he needed to take care of at home. We have already planned to reschedule for another day, though […]
They asked us to give voice to our enemy. Name it. What kept us all from love? Symbolized by a wood carving pulled around the fire, people confronted their enemy. They gave it a name. They shouted, screamed, cursed at it. I stood on the edge of the circle, barely able to contain myself. I […]
“Boring and more sedate is good for you.” – DocAs he read off the characteristics, one-by-one, I wanted to laugh. There I was in black and white. Well, actually he was reading off of his e-Reader, so maybe black and beige. But still… At the start of our session today, I asked Doc to talk […]
One of the latest long term homework assignments Doc has given me is quite simple, yet also very effective.Everyday I tell myself that I love myself.It’s often in the car when I’m alone, listening to music, speeding along to here or there. Occasionally it’s when I’m sitting around with friends. Once it was when I […]
I saw my Ex at The Floating World.I looked about one hundred feet across the playspace, near its entrance, and there he was. I instantly recognized the brown skin, bald head, and stocky build.I immediately turned around.For good measure, I looked again. Yup, it was him. I turned back around.I followed a friend outside and […]
A few things from my day.It’s Tuesday, which more often then not lately has meant I get to see Doc. As we talked about the happenings of my past week, my practice of his homework assignments, and things bugging my brain, an interesting topic came up: commitment. Well, more to the point, my lack of […]